That's exactly what metagaming is, sorry.

its when you bring up real life in game like if there was party irl and i mentioned it thats meta gaming as the wonderful wikipidea says

No, metagaming is giving your roleplay character knowledge that it doesn't know. In this case, asking where someone is or telling someone where to go in-game is metagaming because your rp character wouldn't know that without OOC. Or, in other words, you're technically breaking the fourth wall which ruins the rp.