I'm So Nervous

[Saphentite]

Hello Everyone, My Name Is Saphentite. I'm A Pre Hrt Trans Girl And Have Been Interested In Joining The Server For A While Now,

But I'm Afraid To Join Because I Have ADHD And Autism, So I'm Afraid That Ill Forget/Break A Rule By Accident. I Would Love To Join But If Someone Has Any Advice On Getting Over This Silly Fear Of Mine Let Me Know

 

[Benspudgydad]

Okay!! So my best advice for you is rather simple!! You can either have the rules on your second monitor (if you have one) OR just have them on your phone. Another bit is to have rules open on your phone! OR you can band together with some older players, and they can guide you through SRP and educate you on how to follow the rules!! Or if you want, you can dm me any questions based on SRP, and I can (most likely) answer them!! (Also me is Autistic as well!!)

 

[urufu]

Hello!!
I am also diagnosed with ADHD and Autism so I relate to you with that and HEAVILY relate to the fear of accidentally breaking a rule.

I was able to get past it by taking everything slowly. You don't have to introduce yourself to everything all at once, spread it out over a couple of weeks! I heavily recommend befriending people who are also new. I still speak to the people I met back then almost daily, and having someone to build your confidence with overtime genuinely makes RP feel so much more relaxing. Don't be afraid to ask for help too!

If there is anything specific you need help with, my DMs are always open on Discord (@Urrufu) and I encourage you to reach out!

 

[Saphentite]

Thank You For The Advice

I Think I'll Give the Server a try later today

 

[Sincriterio_]

just play and have fun!!! that's the important thing